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(A lovely post upon the tradition of gifting flowers from our wonderful Floral Lead; Denise) Gifting flowers goes right back to ancient times when societies often used flowers in religious traditions, appreciated for their beauty, scent, and practical uses flowers were offered to the gods and to the dead. The Greeks used flowers in ceremonies and also in storytelling. Later, they exchanged flowers to show love. Gifting flowers is a tradition that has lasted throughout history and has evolved over the centuries, but it’s aritual that spans all cultures. From congratulations on the birth of a baby to condolences on the loss of a loved one, gifting flowers continues to be one of the most popular ways to mark the momentous events of life. The gifts can be as simple as wild flowers picked from the wayside to elaborate bouquets bought from the florist.
Valentine’s Day continues to be the biggest flower-giving day of the year, but it is far from the only special occasion marked by this ancient ritual. Roses are the most popular flower to be gifted - whatever the occasion. In the Middle Ages gifting flowers became an integral part of chivalric courtship between a knight and his lady, with daisies symbolizing fidelity and affection. Floral motifs were included in the designs of shields, tapestries, and heraldry, embedding the symbolism of flowersinto medieval identity and storytelling. The blending of flowers with the ideals of knighthood gave gifting flowers an air of nobility and passion.The practice of gifting flowers with their layered symbolism during theMiddle Ages laid an important foundation for the expressive traditions that followed. Gifting flowers continued into the Renaissance times, when different flowers and flowering plants were linked to a variety of virtues and emotions. Blooms became not only tokens of love and appreciation but also powerful emblems of political alliances and power. However, it was in the Victorian era when posy gifting became popular and reached its peak. The meanings associated with flowers were compiled and popularized by writers and poets at this time. These interpretations were drawn from various sources, including ancient myths, folklore, religious symbolism, and the type, shape and colour of the flower itself; and were published in various forms, including flower dictionaries and ‘language of flowers’ books. The first flower dictionary in Europe, ‘Le Langage des Fleurs,’ was published in 1819, giving a list of flower meanings. Young gentlemen would send flowers with hidden meanings to a young lady. This form of flower code (called ‘floriography’) was a way of conveying one’s feelings in a time whenrestraint and discretion was the order of the day. Bouquets of specific flowers would be gifted, acting as messengers of emotions. The messages weren’t always positive, however, as beautiful arrangements could also be disguised as signs of rejection, anger, and sorrow. Some examples of flowers and their meanings are: Red roses represent love and respect, white roses symbolise humility and reverence, and pink roses express gratitude, while yellow roses signify the enduring bond of friendship. White carnations represent innocence, pink convey remembrance, and red symbolise admiration. Violets symbolised discretion and humility Hydrangeas represent understanding and friendship. Daffodils are linked to hope and new beginnings. Orchids symbolise eternal love and beauty. Chrysanthemums, in many cultures, symbolise loyalty, friendship, and rebirth. Lavender flowers represent mistrust and a lack of faith. These are but a few examples; there are, of course, many more flowers that could be added to this list. Sending a bouquet of flowers with a message in the type of flower itself is almost a thing of the past. Floristry (the cultivation, arrangement, and sale of cut flowers) developed in the mid 19th century, and so began the commercialization of the gifting of flowers that prospers to this day. Today we pick up a bunch of flowers usually from the supermarket (florists now being in short supply in Ripon) and scarcely give a thought to what flowers are contained therein. We hope that the mere giving of flowers will send the desired message to the recipient. I’m guilty of this - I choose flowers that are aesthetically pleasing, that look fresh and that have longevity, rather than thinking about the meaning of the chosen blooms; and look for the same things when receiving flowers. That is until Valentine’s Day, and what female wouldn’t say no to a beautiful bouquet of red roses then? However, having looked at the meaning of the orchid, maybe a potted orchid, that would possibly last for many years, may be a better gift. Any gentlemen reading this, please take note! DIGITAL COMMUNICATIONS
Over the last few years, Lucy has coordinated the digital communications for St John's and Holy Innocents but will be stepping back from this role over the summer. The PCC are looking for someone who might be able to help continue Lucy's great work. In particular, we are looking for someone who can maintain our church website and produce our monthly e-newsletter. If you think you might be able to help, (training can also be provided as needed) please contact Tony Whitley, Jane Gazard or David PW. PCC SECRETARY Jan Carnell has given up as our administrator so we are looking for a PCC Secretary. The role involves taking minutes for about eight PCC meetings a year as well as sending out papers in advance. Once a year there is an annual meeting to minute, as well as a report to assemble and print. If think you might be able to help us, please contact Tony Whitley, Jane Gazard or David PW. JUNIOR CHURCH St John's is restarting its Junior Church, starting on Sunday 5th July. To begin with this will be on the first Sunday of the month as part of the 10am service. Ideally we would like to be able to offer it on the third Sunday as well. Could you help? If so, please speak to David or to Carol-ann Howe. Many thanks David By Rev David Paton Williams Thirty six years ago Jenny and I brought our young baby son George to the font, to be brought into the family of the church and blessed by God.
And today George and Lauren bring their young baby daughter, Chloe to be baptised as well. And so the circle of life keeps moving on. And that reminded me of the film of the Lion King. which begins with Mufasa and Sariba presenting their young cub Simba to the rest of the Pride and all the other creatures. And after many adventures and the sad death of Mufasa, it ends with Simba and Nala presenting their cub in the same way. And in the sequel film (released online) we learn that their cub is female - called Kiara. The circle of life carries on and something is passed on from one generation to the next. Each with its own opportunities and challenges. Simba's story involves the healing of the natural world, while Kiara will need to try to reconcile two parts of the pride that hate and fear each other. There are many echoes here from the Bible. The Spirit of God was deeply involved in Jesus' life from the moment of his conception, and at his baptism the Spirit was poured out on him. And one of the last gospel stories about Jesus - which I read - pictures Jesus breathing into his followers to give them new life. The word in Hebrew for breath and Spirit are the same (Ruach) and Jesus is passing on that same Spirit which gave him the ability to live in the most remarkable way and, when it came to it, to die in the most remarkable way as well. He is passing that Spirit on to his followers, the next generation who will face their own challenges and opportunities, as they try to work out what it means to live for God in this world. And so it has continued for 2000 years, as the circle of life goes on and as God's Spirit of life and love is received by each new generation. And that message is there for us in the music in the film as well. The song we heard is called "He lives in you" and it is about how the spirit of Mufasa lives on in those who come after him. "He lives in you. He lives in me. He watches over everything we see. Into the water, into the truth, in your reflection, he lives in you." And for Christians that isn't merely a song, its real life, because we believe that the "he" is Christ. And he lives in you and he lives in me. It is a very beautiful and positive message. But we also know that the world isn't always an easy place. And by contrast with the Lion King, I've just finished reading Cormac McCarthy's novel "The Road". It's an incredibly bleak story set after some cataclysmic disaster, where almost all the plants and animals and fish and birds have died, and so have almost all the humans, and when everything - land and sea - is covered in ash that keeps on falling out of the sky. And in the story, a man and his young son, walk and walk, just trying to stay alive and trying - though maybe not always succeeding - to stay on the side of what they call "the good guys". They believe they can do this because they are carrying what they call "the fire". At the end of the book the father dies and just before he does he tells his son: You have to carry the fire. And the son replies: I don't know how to. Yes you do. Is it real? The fire? Yes it is. Where is it? I don't know where it is. Yes you do. It's inside you. It was always there. I can see it. The man believes that it is a divine fire - the fire of love. And no sooner has the boy's father died than another family find him and take care of him. And fire was one of the ways the coming of the Holy Spirit was pictured in our first reading from the day of Pentecost. And no sooner have Jesus' followers received the fire, than they are building a radical new community of love and care. We have been given the gift of life and the fire is inside each of us. By faith, consciously connecting our lives with God, the divine source of that fire, we can kindle it and carry it. We can find the energy, the hope, the joy, the love, that carries us and others through the wonderful and deeply challenging times of our lives. Helping not only our families, but like Simba and Kiara, and the past generations of Christ's followers, helping to carry on God's circle of life and passing on the fire of His love. I would like to add my thanks to Juliet, Simon and Gabriel for all their support for Sharow Bells and wish them well on their next adventure. On 9th May, Sharow Bellringers hosted the 150th Anniversary Dinner on behalf of the Yorkshire Association of Change Ringers. St John's looked resplendent with the tables set, and the food was superb. The event raised £1,700 for the bell fund which was a wonderful result. Wood also made a cake, which was dressed with the anniversary logo. Well done everyone for making it such a fantastic day. Ascension Day was marked by bells being rung and Wood playing his trumpet from the roof of the tower. Really quite remarkable. 17th May was Bell Sunday, which we celebrated by ringing the bells, prayers and flowers. Many thanks to Rev David, Wood and Denise who made the service so special. From 12 noon till 12.30pm, on Wednesday 17th June, the bells will be rung for all to hear. The tower will be tested by the civil engineers to see how much it sways. There will be three measurements. One when the tower is at rest, when we aren't ringing. One when we are ringing all 8 bells, with no silencing, so the clappers and the bells all swing. And a final time after we have stopped ringing. The findings will be used as part of our application for Faculty Approval for the project works, both inside and outside the tower. An important consideration as the stonework of the tower is currently in very poor condition. Half term saw both Gregory and Izzy joining our Silent Wednesday practice. Both young people are making great progress. David and Wood also continue to teach us all, on Mondays and Wednesdays, to improve our striking and learning to ring different methods and call changes. My next fundraising Wild Swim for the bells will be on Saturday 6th June in the River Great Ouse near St Ives Cambridge. If you'd like to support the bell project or learn more about bellringing, please get in touch. Bridget Taylor-Connor Tower Correspondent 07752981346 [email protected] Give to St John's Bells - https://www.justgiving.com/campaign/appealforapeal Sharow Bellringers on Facebook - https://rb.gy/44gwkk Bellinging Prayer for the |
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